<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute?</title>
	<atom:link href="http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/</link>
	<description></description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 16:33:27 -0700</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: RichWallace</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-341</link>
		<dc:creator>RichWallace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 20:17:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-341</guid>
		<description>Thanks for the comment, dandelion.  I completely agree and hopefully, one day the stigma will finally meet its end.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment, dandelion.  I completely agree and hopefully, one day the stigma will finally meet its end.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: dandelion</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-339</link>
		<dc:creator>dandelion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:42:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-339</guid>
		<description>Thank you for writing this post. I&#039;ve heard too many times that people throw around &quot;bipolar&#039; or &quot;manic-depressive&quot; as if it is a character trait. It makes me mad like nobody&#039;s business. But heck, even my MIL used words like &quot;crazy&quot; and even &quot;schizophrenic&quot; to describe my husband&#039;s behavior, which I think is just horrible and I called her out on it. 
 
We have to educate people to be more careful about what words they use in an inappropriate context. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for writing this post. I&#039;ve heard too many times that people throw around &quot;bipolar&#039; or &quot;manic-depressive&quot; as if it is a character trait. It makes me mad like nobody&#039;s business. But heck, even my MIL used words like &quot;crazy&quot; and even &quot;schizophrenic&quot; to describe my husband&#039;s behavior, which I think is just horrible and I called her out on it. </p>
<p>We have to educate people to be more careful about what words they use in an inappropriate context.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Midnight Madness</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-980</link>
		<dc:creator>Midnight Madness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-980</guid>
		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute? &#124; The Bipolar Spouse: http://bit.ly/6UPBTE via @addthis  Added Rich to my blog roll check it out!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute? | The Bipolar Spouse: <a href="http://bit.ly/6UPBTE" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/6UPBTE</a> via @addthis  Added Rich to my blog roll check it out!</span></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: RichWallace</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-267</link>
		<dc:creator>RichWallace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 14:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-267</guid>
		<description>Hi Alice and thank you for sharing! I commend you on wishing to provide a higher level of support for your friend, we need more folks like you out there willing to go that extra mile or two to educate themselves on these situations.  
  
How you approach the issue should be driven on how your friend approaches himself; if he&#039;s open about the disorder and how he manages it, then maybe start asking him questions and have a heart-to-heart discussion and lead into assuring him that you&#039;re looking to enhance your availability to him when he may require the support.  If he chooses to shy away from the issue, then maybe keep it to yourself until it comes time to exercise what you&#039;re learning to help him out.  
  
Great question and hopefully some other folks may be willing to share their ideas and opinions as well.  Thanks again for visiting and sharing!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Alice and thank you for sharing! I commend you on wishing to provide a higher level of support for your friend, we need more folks like you out there willing to go that extra mile or two to educate themselves on these situations.  </p>
<p>How you approach the issue should be driven on how your friend approaches himself; if he&#039;s open about the disorder and how he manages it, then maybe start asking him questions and have a heart-to-heart discussion and lead into assuring him that you&#039;re looking to enhance your availability to him when he may require the support.  If he chooses to shy away from the issue, then maybe keep it to yourself until it comes time to exercise what you&#039;re learning to help him out.  </p>
<p>Great question and hopefully some other folks may be willing to share their ideas and opinions as well.  Thanks again for visiting and sharing!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Peter H Brown</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-981</link>
		<dc:creator>Peter H Brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 01:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-981</guid>
		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute? &#124; The Bipolar Spouse http://bit.ly/61CqOs #bipolar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute? | The Bipolar Spouse <a href="http://bit.ly/61CqOs" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/61CqOs</a> #bipolar</span></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Alice Teh</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-262</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice Teh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 23:05:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-262</guid>
		<description>Thank you so much for your writing. I&#039;m trying my best understand a very close friend of mine  who has bipolar and every time I connect with him, I try my utmost to show respect and not let what has inflicted him to be my focus. Which then brings me to look out for blogs like yours with the hope that I will do the right thing. 
 
I would like to know, if I read books and other materials related to bipolar disorder, should I mention this fact to him? Or should I keep it to myself? I care for him and but I don&#039;t want to show it the wrong way. Appreciate your advice. Thanks again! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for your writing. I&#039;m trying my best understand a very close friend of mine  who has bipolar and every time I connect with him, I try my utmost to show respect and not let what has inflicted him to be my focus. Which then brings me to look out for blogs like yours with the hope that I will do the right thing. </p>
<p>I would like to know, if I read books and other materials related to bipolar disorder, should I mention this fact to him? Or should I keep it to myself? I care for him and but I don&#039;t want to show it the wrong way. Appreciate your advice. Thanks again!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: The Bipolar Spouse</title>
		<link>http://thebipolarspouse.com/2010/01/18/bipolar-disorder-illness-or-attribute/comment-page-1/#comment-982</link>
		<dc:creator>The Bipolar Spouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 15:53:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thebipolarspouse.com/?p=1004#comment-982</guid>
		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;New Blog Post: Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute? http://bit.ly/8IueMo #bipolar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">New Blog Post: Bipolar Disorder: Illness or Attribute? <a href="http://bit.ly/8IueMo" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/8IueMo</a> #bipolar</span></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

<!-- Performance optimized by W3 Total Cache. Learn more: http://www.w3-edge.com/wordpress-plugins/

Minified using disk
Page Caching using disk (enhanced) (user agent is rejected)

Served from: thebipolarspouse.com @ 2010-07-30 17:25:54 -->